I wanted to write some thing a little bit different today. And I promise I am completely and honestly going to be myself writing this (hahaha. hence the title)
I feel like that growing up with social media every where, and having to balance that with school, exams, friends and a whole bunch of other stuff can be confusing and stressful at times. Especially when the internet and the world can be really scary and a negative place. Of course this is my little happy place of the internet and I make it as positive as I possibly can, but sometimes I think that I can be judged for being who I am, or judged for being some one else. I think that sometimes myself, or any one can change yourself just to fit in with that and sometimes I just need to think to myself, is this really what I want...? Should I be doing this for me?
At times it's really hard to be confident enough to do some thing as normal as being yourself. It is SO important to just be yourself, because otherwise YOU won't get to where YOU want to be. Even if it's something as wearing, I don't know, a neon pink scrunchie to school because YOU like it! If some one doesn't like you, for being you, then how much should they really matter to you?
And I'm going to finish with that. Next time you're making a decision, please ask yourself, is this what I want?
all the hugs and squeezes, Zoë:)xxxx